I sing to her in bed, the same words sung over me when I was a little girl.
Tomorrow morning if you wake up and the sun does not appear- I will be here.
If in the dark we lost sight of love, hold my hand and have no fear- I will be here.
And when she is restless in the night, I sing the one song that has calmed my fears and brought peace in the midst of every numbing storm I have ever lived through.
Be still and know that He is God
Be still and know that He is holy
Be still, O restless soul of mine
Bow before the Prince of peace
Let the noise and clamor cease
And when we dance around the living room?
I will dance with Cinderella
While she is here in my arms
‘Cause I know something the prince never knew
Oh I will dance with Cinderella
I don’t want to miss even one song
‘Cause all too soon the clock will strike midnight
And she’ll be gone.
And when we are just pretending to be wild animals?
K-I-N-G of the J-U-N-G-L-E
…Followed by an insanely dramatic cow-girl version of
Saddle up yeeeeer horses! We’ve got a trail to blaze!
Through the wild blue yoooooonder of God’s amazing grace!
These are our songs. These are my songs. The soundtrack of my life.
The Soundtrack of My Life
The summer after second grade my family moved from a tiny town in Mississippi to a rough, low income neighborhood in Ft. Worth, Texas so my parents could go to seminary. I was terrified and heart broken at leaving all our family behind and starting over in a foreign world. As we drove from Magnolias in Mississippi, over boggy rivers in Louisiana into wide open fields in East Texas, my dad put a cassette tape in to cover the tears of my sister and I.
You’re my hiding place, safe in Your embrace
I’m protected from the storm that rages
When the waters rise, and I run to hide
Lord, in You I find my hiding place
I am 33 years old and I still sing this song- often.
When I am afraid, the words of this song flow out of my soul; well-worn and true. Thousands of miles have been traveled since I was that 8-year-old little girl crying in the back seat of my parent’s green minivan, clinging to the words of this song as if they were the only hope I had left. And 25 years later, this is still the soundtrack of my life.
So let your people seek You
While You may be found
‘Cause You’re our only refuge
When the rain comes pouring down
And so goes my life. So much road traveled. Thousands of miles. Hills. Valleys. Flat tires. Bus fires. Broken. Beautiful. Becoming.
And his songs play out like a God-orchestrated soundtrack telling the story of my faith- speaking the very words that shaped, formed, and breathed life into me. I knew the words to these songs backwards and forwards. They were prayed, sung, danced to, clung to. In closets, cars, church and in my heart- they were the whisper of the deepest things I knew to be true in the world.
Even as a little girl, I knew these songs were the heartbeat of life set to lyric and melody.
It was never about fame or being a fan. Barring my parent’s presence in my life, these songs had the single biggest influence on my soul running to Jesus and never turning back. They represent the seasons of my life; spiritual markers for a girl who just keeps falling more in love with the mystery of Christ.
I sing these songs instinctively. Often. They are forever woven into my story. A part of who I am.
How do you thank someone who has penned the soundtrack to your faith?
How do you thank a man and a woman who have been there your entire life (without knowing) and shown you what marriage, honesty, beauty, severe loss, transparency, authenticity and well-worn faith looks like? How do you tell someone that they have shown you Jesus in such a way that everything in you changed? Forever changed. And that anyone who has ever heard my music-was just a by-product of me hearing his music. Of me watching his honesty? Of me watching their honesty on display for all the world to wrestle with?
Steven and Mary Beth Chapman don’t know me, but my life is different because of their faithfulness.
They have been with me since I was a little girl. My earliest memories have songs attached to them. His songs. My earliest moments sensing God’s presence in my heart and in my tiny bedroom came as I put in my cassette tapes and let the words carry me to a place I knew somewhere deep inside of me but didn’t yet have words for.
Words to my faith. Melody to my prayers. Lyrics to my heart.
Long before I could memorize a scripture verse or understand the Bible for myself, I knew Jesus well- because Steven Curtis Chapman painted a picture of a Savior who loved me- and I just knew- from a song- that I belonged to God. And everything changed.
These are the words. The soundtrack of growing from a little girl, scared to move away from my small town Mississippi home- to a grown girl, trying to be honest and brave.
Sometimes His voice comes calling
Like rolling thunder, like driving rain
And sometimes His voice is quiet
And we start to wonder, if He knows our pain
But He who spoke peace to the water
Cares more for our hearts than the waves
And the voice that once said, “You’re forgiven”
Still says, “You’re forgiven” today
The world’s an ocean waiting at my door
Before I set out for the open sea
I’ll take the word my father’s given me
And I’ll go sailing out to treasure island
He died to bring us more to this life living than dying
More than just trying to make it through the day
More to this life, more than these eyes alone can see
For the Sake of the Call…
Don’t get me started. I’m already a weepy mess. I remember the first time I heard this song. I sat and listened to the entire cassette, entranced, tears dripping off my chin. Me, a 10-year-old girl, felt more compelled to live life than I knew what to do with. With each song, my heart soared. It rang so true. Something in me ached as I listened to every word and listened to Jesus tell me that this is what He wanted from me. This album was my anthem. It still is. Sometimes- when I want to quit ministry- I literally go to a closet and sing this at the top of my lungs. And then remember. All over again, I remember.
Nobody stood and applauded them
So they knew from the start
This road would not lead to fame
All they really knew for sure was Jesus had called to them
He said “Come follow me” and they came
With reckless abandon they came-
We will abandon it all
For the sake of the call
No other reason at all but the sake of the call
Wholly devoted to live and to die
For the sake of the call
Who, who’s gonna love Maria
Who, who’s gonna touch her
With the tenderness she longs for
Like a desert longs for rain
Started out this morning
In the usual way
Chasing thoughts inside my head
Of all I had to do today
Another time around the circle
Try to make it better than the last…
…and you are all kinds of lying if you grew up in Christian sub-culture and don’t confess to not only singing this song out loud at the top of your lungs, but also acting it out. We all saddled up our horses. Don’t lie. It was the greatest thing to happen in 6th grade. And admit it, the advent of the Toby Mac rap song sent us into Christian music ecstasy.
God our Father once again I bow my head to pray
You are my Father and my Friend, and You hear every word I say
A prayer for forgiveness, a desperate cry for help
Or praise flowing from a thankful heart
Like each time before, I come knowing You’re still listening
And with love that conquers loneliness, and hope that fills all emptiness
He came to earth to show our worth.
Our God is with us, Emmanuel
He’s come to save us, Emmanuel
And we will never face life alone
Now that God has made Himself known
As Father and Friend, with us through the end, Emmanuel
Our God is with us, Emmanuel
Has a more beautiful Christmas song ever been written? The answer, of course, is no. This song is as close as you get to Heaven in the Real World.
I’m free, oh I have been forgiven
God’s love has taken off my chains and given me these wings
And I’m free yeah and the freedom I’ve been given
Is something that not even death can take away from me
Because I’m free, Jesus set me free
I am the heart, You are the heartbeat
I am the eyes, You are the sight
And I see clearly, I am just a body
You are the life
I move my feet, I go through the motions
But You give purpose to chance
I am the dancer
You are the Lord of the dance
Words fall like drops of rain
My lips are like clouds
I say so many things
Trying to figure you out
But as mercy opens my eyes
My words are stolen away
With this breathtaking view of your grace
I am speechless I’m astonished and amazed
Just when you think ‘he must be running dry’- ‘he cannot possibly write another song that so deeply resonates with the rumblings of my faith-’ A haunting, vulnerable melody comes along with a lyric so powerful that I cannot listen to it without the deepest longing for heaven aching inside of my soul.
And the pain falls like a curtain
On the things I once called certain
And I have to say the words I fear the most
I just don’t know
And the questions without answers
Come and paralyze the dancer
So I stand here on the stage afraid to move
Afraid to fall, oh, but fall I must
On this truth that my life has been formed from the dust
God is God and I am not
I can only see a part
Of the picture He’s painting
God is God and I am man
So, I’ll never understand it all
For only God is God
When Loves Takes You In, Magnificent Obsession, Carry You to Jesus… the soundtrack of my early 20′s.
I could go on for another decade. Just when you think there can’t be more- it flows forth.
A beautiful gift to the world.
A guide to the traveler searching for the words and melodies that offer up Jesus as beautiful, holy, faithful, inviting- constant.
And that, of course, is the best gift that Steven and Mary Beth have given the Christian community. A beautiful picture of faithfulness. What it looks like to be in it for the long haul. They have given the world a rare gift. The gift of a journey. Their journey. The journey of faith. The journey to the cross. The journey through unbearable loss-grief-suffering and healing. The journey that says- no matter what- we are constant because HE is constant. They have invited us to watch. To join. To dream. To live. To abandon it all for the sake of the call.
So tonight as my little girl tossed and turned in her bed, she said, “Mommy, sing me the song about being still and knowing that He is God. And being quiet and stuff.”
And I did.
I sing this song over her every night. “Be still and know that He is God. Be still and know he is your Father. Come rest your head upon his chest- listen to the rhythm of, His unfailing heart of love. Beating for His little ones. Calling each of us to come. Be still. Be speechless.”
Not too long ago, as I sang while she nodded to sleep with her tiny eyes closed, she said-
“Mommy- I want to be best friends with God forever because this songs make me love him sooo much.”
I kissed her forehead.
“I know baby. This song makes me love Him so much too.”
Steven and Mary Beth- you have given us a legacy. And tonight as I laid with my little girl, I decided that I have waited long enough to say thank-you. Your words and your witness have been the most beautiful soundtrack a generation could be privileged to grow up with.
So though it falls short…
You have given us the heartbeat of Jesus this side of heaven.
A soundtrack of faith.